Changing Your Money Situation with Tami Jaffe | Ep. 163

Nothing changes until we really decide for it to. We've got to make the decision that we want to do something different. We've got to change who we are in order to get that.

• Tami explains that wanting more money isn't enough—you must decide to change and align your identity with that goal.

• Vague goals like "I want more money" can be technically fulfilled by receiving just $1 more. Tami recommends setting measurable, specific targets.

When you're specific and you can measure what you're trying to get to, then the universe shows up and gives you exactly what you're asking for.

• Tami used her bonus target as a password to keep it top of mind daily, and visualized walking into the office on her resignation day.

• Tami's framework from her book consists of a triangle with clarity at the center and three sides: confidence, courage, and commitment. A consistency bubble surrounds it.

• What exactly do I want?
• How am I going to make it happen?
• What steps do I need to take daily?
• Who can help me get there?

• As clarity grows, it pushes outward on confidence, courage, and commitment, creating momentum through consistent action.

• Tiffany shares how she applied the trifecta when leaving corporate: she calculated she needed $50/day to cover bills, hit that goal consistently through side hustles, gained confidence, and made the leap.

I had clarity around what that number was. So it gave me the confidence to actually step out the door.

• Tami recommends setting multiple daily phone reminders—some inspirational, some goal-specific—to reframe your mindset throughout the day.

I am growing in love, abundance, and success every day as I inspire others to do the same.

• Tiffany used timed affirmations at 10am, 2pm, and 6pm to combat corporate energy slumps and stay focused on family when coming home.